Thursday, September 13, 2007

WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE


Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but

you should marry with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is ashuman as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or yourSister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a systemthat gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almostas much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, peoplewho love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even yourfamily name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, whileyou sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances,environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning andcook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are,maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant,a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learningjust like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy andsloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is toodemanding, or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and evenmen at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days andyet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid yourirrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherentinsecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't,simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, justlike yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most importantrelationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help hersome and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one sheknows in your entire house - your unstinted support, yoursensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, ifyou may call it.

But not many guys understand this...

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